Nigerian lady tells how she was deceived Into Marriage, Used And Dumped (A Must Read)
I met him 8 years ago when I was posted to his office for my Industrial Attachment. He was a nice boss and gradually we became friendly. He came across to me as a man who was not happy and was struggling with issues. With time, he confided in me that he had marital issues and his wife was leaving him because they had been married for about 10 years without children, the doctors had certified them okay but she was tired of waiting and believed their destinies were not intertwined and they should try other people as they were both not getting any younger.
I felt really sad for him and tried to cheer him up the best I could till my Industrial attachment came to an end and I left. About a year after our paths crossed again, he told me he was single and asked me for a relationship which I obliged. Everything was fast, he came with his family to meet my parents and ask for my hand in marriage, we got married and the kids came in quick succession, his job took him away a lot of times, sometimes for weeks or even a month , he isn't around.
Then he changed, he will complain about an irrelevant thing, if I try to explain, he will get angry, call me a nag and leave the house,stay incommunicado for weeks on end. Ha, I became an emotional wreck.
Sometime last year, I ran into an old colleague from his office and she gave me the shocker of my life, my husband was still married to his wife, they never separated, like me, she has 2 kids now, same age with mine just four months difference, each time I got pregnant, she got pregnant too, while I have 2 girls, she has a boy and a girl.
I confronted my husband, he insulted me and told me to stop snooping on his wife and kids that if anything happens to them, he will kill me. While she lives in the highest brow area of Lagos with kids in a school that the school fees can buy a good car, I live in the dungeons of Agege with my kids in a school that combined the fees is not up to 100k. They travel round the world at will, we have never even gone to Cotonou.
The other time the wife was ill, they both called to threaten me that if she doesn't get better, I will be done for. If her kids fall down, it's me, if they have fever, it's me.
My husband doesn't come home again but sends our upkeep peanuts regularly
Stella, I have become their common enemy. I am sad, I am pained, I know I didn't snatch anybody's husband, I was simply deceived, used and dumped. I have a strong feeling he did it all in collaboration with his wife. I don't deserve this at all. The man is 50, wife in her 40s while I'm just 30. Wicked people. My God will judge them.
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